This is so true, my master always explains this with example of a child who is busy playing outdoors, mother keeps an eye but she remains carefree, becuse she sknows the kid is busy playing with toys, when he falls and start crying she sends her closed one to check what's wrong. but when the child keeps crying for the mother and want nothing but her then she comes with a smile and picks the little one. we are that child untill we're busy playing with the gits of god he'll send more. but the day we'll cry for him and him alone he is no far. he will come.